Dates That Lead To Sex

Whether it’s your first date or your 50th anniversary, every night on the town with your sweetheart has the possibility of ending with sex!  While the bedroom might be the end goal, getting there can be just as fun.  We’ve gathered some flirty, exciting and romantic, sexy date night ideas to help spark the fire so you can ignite your lover’s desire!

Wine & Paint Night  –  These creative events have been popping up all over the country, and offer some great opportunities for seduction.  A trained artist guides you through the painting process while you sample wines and chat with friends.  Can’t find an event near you? Have your own Wine & Paint Night at home, and make it even more risqué!  Model for each other’s paintings (nude or in some sexy lingerie), try some sensual body art, or just enjoy each other’s creative side while sipping on your favorite wines!  A soft paint brush over bare skin can tease and tickle your lover, have them try to guess what you’re “painting” onto their skin by the sensation alone!  After your masterpieces are finished, take a steamy bubble bath together to get that paint off, and let your imagination run wild!  You may find your inner-artist’s favorite canvas is your lover’s body!

Pleasure Picnic  –  This isn’t your grandma’s picnic basket!  Tailor a menu that’s full of aphrodisiacs (food or drinks that stimulate sexual desire) and have your partner experience a culinary climax that will leave them hungry for more.  All the effort and thought that go into planning a romantic picnic will be apparent when they see the date you’ve created just for them!  Grab a thick, comfortable blanket and find a beautiful, private backdrop to set your scene!  You can blindfold your partner and make a sensual game out of having them do a taste test as you feed them by hand, or just sip champagne and relax while enjoying nature and each other.

Tips To Put You In The Mood

There are many “romantic” foods that are known aphrodisiacs, such as chocolate, oysters, champagne and strawberries.  Lesser known aphrodisiacs include chili peppers, honey, figs, pomegranates, and artichokes.  Remember to pick foods that are easy-to-eat or at least make a sexy mess (think chocolate sauce, not buffalo wings!).  If you’re lucky, your partner will find this sexy date so delicious you end up in the bedroom for dessert!

Stargazing  –  This may seem like a pretty tame idea, but what other date involves lying on a blanket with your partner under a beautiful night sky?  Use the opportunity to get close, cuddle, and spark romance.  Bring a bottle of their favorite wine, familiarize yourself with your lover’s astrology sign and point out to their constellation!  They’ll find it thoughtful and sweet that you went out of your way to learn something about them.  For bonus points, adopt a star and name it after your lover!  Every year there are fantastic cosmic events, like meteor showers and planetary events that can be seen without a telescope, check your local weather for upcoming astrological events and plan your romantic evening under the stars!

 

 

Burlesque Show  –  This is NOT a strip club, it is a theatrical performance!  Burlesque shows are all about the tease of sex. They include comedy, music, and dancing. This is a breathtakingly sexy visual experience!  Burlesque has seen a reemergence recently, and there are now troupes performing all over the country.  These dedicated and talented ladies have learned to shake, grind and twirl in the sexiest classiest way, and just watching a show can teach you a lot!  So take your lover out for a fun and sexy night on the town, pick up a few pointers, and head home to put on a show of your own!

Arcade  –  How could the arcade possibly be sexy?  One word… Competition!  If you’re like me, a little good-natured rivalry can really get your blood pumping, and the arcade offers the perfect back-drop for flirting, laughing, and some friendly fighting!  Challenge each other to games, get delicious snacks, and enjoy acting like love-struck teens for a night.  Remember to keep it light-hearted, no one wants to sleep with a poor-sport!  For a fun twist before you head in, each of you should write down a sexual fantasy on a piece of paper, keep score throughout the night, and whoever wins gets to act theirs out!  Trust me; it’s a much better prize than an over-sized stuffed bear!

Bikram Yoga  –  While any type of yoga can take a turn for the erotic, Bikram Yoga has the added benefit of being done in a heated room.  The deep stretches and poses help to increase flexibility. You and your lover can get into all kinds of different positions in the bedroom!  Your partner will feel relaxed and seriously bendy after a session of hot yoga. Imagine how amazing they’ll look in yoga pants!  You will be sweaty and hot after a Bikram class, but you can cool off together in the shower or pool, or let your pheromones do the talking and head straight to the bedroom!  Find a certified local teacher, and get steamy with your lover today!

Zip-Line Tours  –  This is one that will definitely get you out of your comfort zone as you soar over the tree tops on a zip-line course!  The exhilarating ride should get your heart pounding. Many people report having a very high sex drive after engaging in “risky” or “scary” activities.  Even though you’ll be strapped into a harness, the thrill of sailing through the air so far above the ground can make even the most stoic person giddy with elation.  Get your blood pumping with this exciting, sexy date night idea. It’s sure to make your lover weak in the knees, then take them home and sweep them off their feet!

Upscale Hotel  –  For a classic sexy date, don’t skimp on the accommodations!  Show up separately so you can pick up your lover at the bar under the guise of strangers for a flirtatious liaison, or have them meet you at an appointed time.  Get a fancy hotel room, a bottle of champagne, and treat your lover to the pampering and indulging they deserve every day.  For a sexy segue to sex, get a bottle of massage oil, and allow them to luxuriate under your attentions, making sure to pay special attention to their erogenous zones.  If they have a sexual fantasy you can make a reality, this is the time to do it!  Show your partner you care and make the night as romantic as you can, they WILL reward you!

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